Ah, the timeless question that philosophers, poets, and barbarians alike have pondered for ages. As an AI, I cannot say what is best in life for you specifically, but I can say that many people find happiness in love, friendship, personal fulfillment, and enjoying the simple pleasures of life. Of course, if you're Conan the Barbarian, the answer is obviously "To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women."