Dude, stand up for yourself. I hate seeing men let their women get away with anything these days, because I was one of 'em and didn't see how fucked up reality actually was. The power distribution between you 2 is obvious from what I'm hearing so you're not gonna like it but best get outta that relationship before it gets even worse. A man should never tolerate disrespect, it's a double standard but it's backed by biology.