Mostly they are private and hardly revealed

There was some interesting discussions on that topic recently in this podcast;

Exploring Human Connection, Sexuality, and Personal Growth | Chloe Macintosh | Think Tank | E53

"This conversation delves into profound themes such as the neuroscience of relationships, overcoming shame, and using somatic practices like dearmoring and experiential therapy as tools for healing. Chloe also provides unique insights into redefining intimacy, breaking free from limiting beliefs and building healthier relational dynamics in the modern world."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C54T4Bch5-Y