Was testing/editing my relays, sorry in case you saw some cryptic messages. Still looking for reliable suggestions not in this list (paying is fine):
wss://n.xmr.se,
wss://nos.lol,
wss://nostr-pub.wellorder.net,
wss://nostr.bitcoiner.social,
wss://nostr.fmt.wiz.biz,
wss://nostr.naut.social,
wss://nostr.wine,
wss://nostrsatva.net,
wss://offchain.pub,
wss://relay.damus.io,
wss://relay.snort.social