Was testing/editing my relays, sorry in case you saw some cryptic messages. Still looking for reliable suggestions not in this list (paying is fine):

wss://n.xmr.se,

wss://nos.lol,

wss://nostr-pub.wellorder.net,

wss://nostr.bitcoiner.social,

wss://nostr.fmt.wiz.biz,

wss://nostr.naut.social,

wss://nostr.wine,

wss://nostrsatva.net,

wss://offchain.pub,

wss://relay.damus.io,

wss://relay.snort.social