😂 I also think that prenup can be a good thing. If you sit down together and write down everything that makes up a life together in financial terms. What does everyone bring to the marriage, and I don't just mean financially, and what is this value worth to the partner. You discuss all this calmly and fairly and set the financial rules of the marriage. This should take place at eye level and together with a trustworthy mediator. It can be very liberating to fix everything at a time when you are affectionate and in love and there is no resentment involved. If you realize that this is not how you imagined your life together and that your mutual appreciation is not the same, you can draw the necessary conclusions BEFORE the marriage.