Zeus has native tor, no need for external app like orbot. Bluewallet got rid of native tor, so you will need orbot.

Again use Zeus with LNDHub. Just make sure you are scanning the LNBits QR Code from your .onion address. If not it'll produce a connection error.

Zeus loading time will be slower via Tor, but works great in this particular case.

I have several family & friends setup just like this.