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This couple split up.

"Change with her, never replace her ❤️"

From this text we can discern that the man was (A) chronically devotional, (B) overly romantic, and (C) ultimately signalling dependence.

Notice how they lean into eachother in the first picture. They used eachother as emotional support.

As the woman obtained health and confidence, she stopped leaning. The man leaned even deeper, likely reacting to her straying energy.

My advice:

1. Signalling that you'll "never replace her" only signals that you are afraid to lose her. Instead, maintain a high standard for yourself and frequently qualify her to that standard.

2. Always be the one leading in change. Never put her in the position to take the relationship to the next level. Have a vision at every stage of the relationship and then do you job: lead.

#MasculineFrame

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Mashi mashi 4mo ago

Yeah, it's bad for him.

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Laser 4mo ago

He "saved" her while undermining his own value, or perhaps simply revealing his own insecurity in the process.

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Mashi mashi 4mo ago

Amen

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