It is rare.

The obsession over it due to idiot poets and playwrites and novelists has twisted the world in a bad way.

That's not so say that it doesn't exist, but, that it was expected to be built, not discovered, abd even if it was never achieved, the foundation built to achieve it is still more solid than very temporary passions that may pass like a dream or are two bad meals away from crashing down.

I detest romanticism in human relationships, if you couldn't tell.