This is my struggle with nostr. Nostr works really well as a broadcast protocol, sending one-to-many. It’s simple but has no P2P options.

For example, DMs on nostr are not private. All the relays you use can see that two people are communicating, even if those relays can’t read the messages. Also, the history and timing of your commutations are public and can be stored by malicious parties indefinitely.

So basically, nostr is better than centralized platforms, but it remains unclear how it will fare against totalitarian governments who can figure out who you are by your IP address and see who you’re communicating with.