Not a city, and right now, no, not long hours.
But... I don't know where the type of woman I would like to have as a companion would be.
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Yes, and I meant her, she (the designer) is probably in a city working long hours
Yes, the larger challenge you stated, where and whom to meet? Generally this is proximity at the end of the day.
Probably not so many on nostr yet 😔