There’s something to the DNA thing, for sure.

There are also the behavioral concepts of growing up in a sick family system of addicts. It leaves such a mark at a young age that it hamstrings many from the get go.

If you have “the bad dna” you’re at a disadvantage. But you still have the possibility to succeed.

If you have that “bad dna” 🧬 plus adults caring for you who aren’t well

Mentally, and/or are living in active addiction, you’re very, very screwed from the start. It’s a lot to overcome but not everyone succumbs.

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yeah, my mom was obsessive, including about what it appeared as money from my father. I came as an adult to understand it was her family systems before her and her own security issue

We had the double whammy of Native American blood on one side. Then a deep entrenchment of alcoholism on another… such a cultural thing being immigrants/Catholic/not speaking English… people just didn’t have help available when my grandparents and mom were growing up. I’m the first person in my family to ever get sober. (My mom didn’t drink, just was highly codependent).

this nostr sharing is kind like a meeting 😂🤙

New hive talk use case 🤣

we need some anon encryption lol

Yeah I totally get that. I have two functioning alcoholic parents now that don’t see it or understand the issues at hand