“When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: the people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous and surly. They are like this because they can't tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own - not of the same blood and birth, but the same mind, and possessing a share of the divine. And so none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me in ugliness. Nor can I feel angry at my relative, or hate him. We were born to work together like feet, hands and eyes, like the two rows of teeth, upper and lower. To obstruct each other is unnatural. To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him: these are unnatural.”

- Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

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I am aware it is a quote.

But would you agree, that our expectations probably create the first part of our reality? Therefore I would personally not want to tell this phrase to myself in the morning.

I rather say to me: The people I encounter will be willing to support my happyness. They want me to succeed, even when my feelings interpret it otherwise sometimes.

Far too often a harsh reaction is based in misunderstanding. In hope that I would act against them. I accept that but will go on to support their well being at best. Or at least I will not act in a harmful way, even when they misunderstand me. Since I know that they belief to be the good ones. And I will nurish peoples greatness, while letting their anger hungry.