The piece of shit that lied about these insane number of things, had "conveniently" taken an acknowledgement in understanding while in conversation as a confirmation. I cannot help if people act maliciously behind my back in my name. For years, I have asked for answers, and they only thing I get is backstabbing piece-of-shit sorry excuses for human beings attacking me. That's not my mistake.
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Sorry to hear that and I'm kinda going thru something similar with a bunch of friends that ate at my table for decades. I cut them all the fuck off. What I learned, is that they couldn't go where I'm headed, so they thought they might be able to reign me in to staying stagnant. Not gonna happen, and they no longer serve a purpose in my space.
Good luck, you'll be fine and they'll come running back. Appreciated hearing your experience, thanks and much peace.