Yes, relays are confusing. For example, if I am part of just one relay and that some members are part of another relay, does that mean that we cannot communicate?
What about spam? Why would some spam be on certain relay only? Does that mean that non-spam messages are also limited to certain relays?
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You BOTH have to have ONE (or more) Relays in common.
Spam. So far spammers seem reluctant to pay. So paid relays basically spam free.
The ones run by devs wide open (so the spam comes in) I think a lot of that is to give the devs adverarial stuff on which to practice antispam ideas, all power to them :-)
