Well, yeah, that's why I'm trying to learn, so far it's been trial, and error.
Unfortunately with money, trial, and error is a bad thing to do.
I'm utilizing Zeus since I thought it would be the sweetspot of it all but it appears PC route might be better but honestly I don't know If I want to double down, might go custodial in worse case but keep it minimized.
Might i recommend phoenix wallet. It handles the liquidity and channel splicing and management and is bolt 12 compliant for additional privacy, and works as well as a custodial solution. For payments, at this point, I've opted for monero for a stupid proof solution.
I will try this as an alternative and compare my experience thank you.
But....not your mode, not your rules.
Have you tried blixt wallet?
I use Zeus for mobile that connects to my node, no issues.
Desktop I use the alby extension that connects to alby hub on my node.
No issues except alby hub it logs me out once a month and I have to log in again.
