Best result from that combo was:
(I had to specify "--no couch, blanket, pillows" to mostly ignore them from Kuma's pic)
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but i like that Kuma is on a big blanket/pillow/couch instead hahaha
And then as I said, that combo result as the input plus the original Kuma pic again got me to my final result.
So you can trial-and-error your way to forcing Midjourney to keep referencing irl Milou in one or many actual pics that you specify as part of the input.