“He doesn’t call it stalking so it’s not stalking”
This is a legit explanation that he’s given about the situation.
He’s a stalker and may have even held her against her will at some point.
Discussion
Did he mention holding her captive?
Nope. I've never met her face to face or held anyone captive
For a while I was baiting him and egging him on and being very over the top about it. I half thought this was like a kid doing a bit. So I wanted to see how far I could take it. But. I really don’t think it’s a bit anymore. There were a lot of interactions through many different threads. I’d have to do some digging to find the ones where he was very wishy washy with the language about it.
Basically every conversation devolves into him redefining common language and attempting to change definitions by literally saying “that’s not how I define loving (this woman)”
Here’s a couple of the juicier ones.