I think if you just fit jist one of her preferences you would be a good choice. It would be the spark that leads to more. However she is incorrect on purely judging wholesale based on preferences: because I was with someone who was an absolute nightmare. Both me and her are attractive intelligent kind-hearted people. But it turned out that she was also a crazy controlling stalker with serious orphan abandonment syndrome. So be careful with your heart because women can and will destroy it.