brotherhood. We’re all from different countries, speak different languages, work different jobs, but come together a few nights a week to practice killing each other more efficiently. We shake hands, bow, laugh about our losses and congratulate one another on our victories.

Every jiu jitsu gym I’ve ever visited had these things in common: If you come in with an ego it will get flatlined. If you come as a stranger you will leave with friends. If you don’t drill the martial aspects you will get humbled. If you don’t respect the art you will be out classed. We hold each other accountable, but your progress is your responsibility.

Struggling with takedowns? Well unless you face your fears and shoot and fail and shoot and drill you will get sprawled on forever. Proof of work. The community can help you reframe the problem. You wouldn’t have an issue shooting if you fixed your posture when you got to the knees. If you keep shooting head down you’re gonna get guillotined brather. Try a new approach.

If you fall off the way no one is going to bring you back to class. But when you find yourself they will always welcome you with open arms as long as you come ready to work & learn.

We learn together and experience the hardest part of our days as a team. The rest of life is cake by comparison.

Get out there and find your jiu jitsu or community. Try new things. There is no time for excuses in this life. Push yourself.

What is your core limiting belief?

Okay now that that’s off your chest, stop being a bitch and go build that life and community you want for yourself. It sounds simple, but it will be one of the most challenging & rewarding things you do in this life. Oss 🤙

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just joined Nostr today and started running my own Node. BIG DAY. OSS ⚡

no way man! fing legend

Followed and zapped. Welcome

You said it all 🤙

Osu 🙏🫡

I went to my first BJJ classes back in August, and really enjoyed it

Since got my 4 yr old daughter going regularly, and 2 yr old about to start

We had a 3rd baby in Sept, so personally not made it back on the mat yet

But will 150% go again in the future when I’ve got a bit more time to myself

To echo your note, even with such a small exposure to it, I love the respect, community, humble nature of it

Awesome stiff

let’s go! way to get your family in young as well!

I am a beginner. Humbled every time, stronger every time. Community embrace, encourage, and challenge me. Cant ask for more.

oss!

purple looks dang good on you brather

thanks man!

Beautiful post.

sometimes you gotta just syllable spill from the heart

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(100%)

Also get your kids into JJ immediately. They need to get smashed every now and then.

yes