You could argue that not losing, is almost as good as winning.

Bitcoin is winning, nostr is not losing.

Unless of course, you'd like to go back to Xwitter, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, MySpace, AOL, ICQ, IRC, weChat, Telegram, Signal, Simplex, YahooChat, Random web chat rooms built in javascript and inserted as iFrames, BitchX, eggDrops...

Oh yea, nostr is winning, its how you communicate when you're being truthful.