the problem you don't understand is that the specs you are gatekeeper for have resulted in a dozen different interpretations because the spec is horrible and everyone thinks that fighting with you is the way to get this problem fixed, except you are busy with building your own stuff so in the end, what does that mean?

that we are supposed to just follow you?

that's the problem

there is no public forum about protocol at all, the minimal solution is people publishing their versions on their apps where they follow them to implement, then the interop problem is solved because you know who to ask

the way you have set this up has not worked for over 2 years but ok i'm wrong