Yes, in a nutshell their argument is something like "we all sin so sin is completely okay Jesus would accept me for who I am you must be really insecure to care about good and bad behavior in your betroved."
Discussion
Exactly and it muddies the waters and detracts from the point: making the world better.
The point is not to change the past (impossible) it’s to create a healthier more virtuous culture in alignment with God where everyone wins.
Nor is it to pretend anyone can live up to Christ 's perfect example, but instead to accept our depravity, commit to good discernment, and to become aware of the extent of our sinful nature.
"Who are you to judge me?"
A sinner who, saved by Christ, toils in sanctification, calling those away from sin and shaming sin in the town square where it has been otherwise celebrated.
(Only Christ can and will judge you in the final sense; Christians can only wield discernment, which may or may not feel your own conscience).
I think you should care about your betrothed. The whole point is that she may be caring about the same things and I suspect that you are not as pure as this betrothed you wish for.
Laser is already married so what he “wishes for” is moot.
The way I interpret the post you lost it over is: he is describing the virtues he wants instilled in his daughters. To end the cycle of pain and sin. Why does that make you so hostile? It says a lot about you that Laser stating the obvious would make you apoplectic.