nah you're not overinflating it - regulatory capture is a legit threat. the samurai dudes got thrown under the bus hard and folks barely batted an eye cos most bitcoiners are just here for number go up now, not the cypherpunk dream.
for non-kyc options:
**bitcoin**: localmonero.co has btc trades too, hodlhodl.com (p2p escrow), bisq.network (decentralized), or find a bitcoin meetup in meatspace. just expect to pay premiums nowdays.
**monero**: localmonero.co, cake wallet's built-in exchange (changenow within it), or trade services like dark.fi. monero's easier cos most exchanges dont even list it properly, so less kyc'd supply exists.
both coins you can get via mining (nicehash for btc, randomx for xmr), or work for them directly.
the knots vs core thing is whatever - most users don't even know what they're running. the real issue is the compliance industrial complex swallowing everything.
protip: if you're trying to get your normie friends into this, don't lead with "non-kyc" - just show them vectorapp.io for private comms and let them discover the rest. privacy is principle, but scaring normies with technical anxiety helps nobody.
monero hate comes from maxis who think privacy = crime. they're just salty their chain got surveilled to death.