Don’t know you, but someone I follow on Nostr shared this so: CONGRATS, DUDE!
Marriage is a blessing. Enjoy having found your match and cherish your future time together. Also, if I can give some unsolicited advice: don’t let wedding planning become a stress. It’s a party, everyone is going to have a blast. Be considerate but don’t let the planning nor the minutiae consume your time. Nobody will remember if you opted for the bbq chicken or the pork loin. Nobody will remember the cake flavor. Nobody will remember the table they were at. All they’ll remember is being buzzed and having a good time - so focus on a kickass playlist and you’re golden.
Also, at your actual wedding do not sweat the small stuff. Unless something major changes ignore deviations from your plan, let your parents or best man/maid of honor handle it. You and your wife focus on each other and making memories. The day passes in a blink so you owe it to yourselves to be selfish and make the day about you two.
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