Have you ever been cheated on?
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almost. At my weakest position in life. I found out my girlfriend was planning to fly over seas to fuck some guy she met on the internet. Really fucked with my head for a long time.
I actually found out about it from a dream and then checked her accounts and saw it was true.
It turned out best that we break up. It was an important maturing moment for me but it still sucked to live through.
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Well it's fucking awful I'm so sorry. I'm glad you're over it now and in a better place. That's crazy with one of my ex's I had a dream about something like that and it turned out to be true to you that's so weird. Some people are so shitty
I swear some of you guys have some special equipment preinstalled in your brains. It's dark, but maaaan, so useful. I'm totally in awe. With that only I have no idea why would she chose him over you. Precognition is a huge evolutionary advantage.
And you are not alone.
Years back, my hubby had some weird dream with one of his closest friends being into me out of a blue. He woke up screaming and punching, he told me everything that happened in that dream, and I was wtf.
But he was so disturbed that I went straight to the guy's home and talked to his mother. It turned out to be true.
You can imagine a conversation when a guy got out of his bedroom, it was like 7-8 in a morning, winter time, still dark: 'Hello there sunshine, I came to discuss some things that you plot in your mind. Your momma and me just had such a sweet conversation about you... ' Dude needed a new diaper.
I really wish you the best and much success in love.
Not that I'm aware of at least. Have you?
That's good. A few times but I always left them immediately after. One was cheating on me with men and women that one was crazy
That's fucked up I'm sorry to hear, assholes. Good call, I think that's the only good response. That one dude does sound weird, I bet he was secretly into pegging and anime lol
A few exes that I know of.
Gas-lighting, suicide-threatening, super-controlling sympathy-vampire ex-girlfriend did it when I was in my mid-20s, I was so relieved bcoz I could then ditch the bitch without feeling guilty.
Useless, spendthrift, unilaterally unemployed wife 1.0 did it a few years later, to the surprise of noone except me.
I started making better choices after that
Not exactly, but I met my current gf at the exact same time as someone else, and she juggled us for a month before the other guy sperged out and did some crazy shit.
Lucky for me, because before that, I could tell she liked him more.
Were you guys together for a long time after that