So don't use zaps then.
Discussion
Is that what you believe? That Nostr users shouldn't use zaps?
I think people should use Nostr however they want.
Have you considered that people might actually care about and be interested in your beliefs about how Nostr should be used? Have you considered that people might see people's habits and beliefs as being inherently relevant to eachother? Have you considered that people who want different things than you might actually be wrong and making a mistake?
What I understood from my short stint here is, using or not using zap is up to you. But if you 'feel' like incentivising a content, you can do that directly rather than a big brother coordinating it for the "zapper" and the "zappee". I am drawing parallels to how YouTube incentivises it's content creators... Example: You need 4000 hours of viewership in last 365 days... Or you should have 1000 followers.
But in Nostr, those prerequisites aren't there. You see a good content, zap it, and the content creator is rewarded.
(You either watch ads in other platforms or pay a premium. Either ways you are contributing financially to a big corp)