I’d also probably tell him I’m sorry we met at a party hosted by the guy I was dating at the time. I crush monogamously. Even though he was awesome. My attention was already elsewhere so it was a losing game for him. Almost 20 years later and I’m like what an idiot. The guy I was seeing was acting like a self assured dick and this absolutely sweet heart of guy was right there.
Memory is funny though. More likely this guy doesn’t even remember that night.




