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Why freedom parenting is also great biohack

In my previous post, I wrote about how having children is one of the best natural biohacks you can experience. But this biohack can be taken even further when it comes to parenting itself, especially if you choose to raise your child with freedom (Freedom parenting, Unschooling, etc.). After making such a decision (and doing some research), you'll find that the only thing you can do to even slightly influence and guide your child's development is through your own self-improvement (and that is the biohack for you)

In a parenting style where you have almost no prohibitions, commands, and often even no evaluations in your parental arsenal, self-improvement is the best and most effective way to guide your child, at least to some degree (and especially non-violently). The only thing you can do is be a great partner and inspiration to them in life. Rather than forming them by banning all bad things, you create an environment where there is no demand for them.

So you don't end up like many parents who project onto their children what they could never be and try to shape them into their dream perfect human being through the position of a police officer using violence. You simply have to BECOME what you want to project onto your child (if you want to project anything). You must become the perfect human being that you so admire and not expect the child to become it for you. And after you succeed, it's up to your child to decide what to take from you.

Where abouts in the States are you based or do you travel around a lot?

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Oh hi, I missed this comment :). We are in Europe right now, we have spent the winter in Turkey and now we are slowly heading back to the central Europe to make some money. I do not know if we will ever be in States, maybe South America or Asia in the future.

Oh that’s awesome that you were always in the States

Did you mean US by "states"?

Yes USA

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