When I got to Nostr, my threads where regularly porn-bombed and it was all over the feeds. I started TheForest, to get away from that attempt to "gross" me off the network. (It was often intentional, aggressive trolling.)
A lot of people laughed at me, and said I was creating Nostr for Girls.
But -- surprise, surprise -- most of the people viewing TheForest are men.
It turns out that men are actually happy to be able to have a conversation about important topics without constantly being distracted by naked women and encouraged to shove their hand down their pants.
Who knew?