Yes, same. Boys are both now about 20. Most of our peers are in 40's with their first little ones. They look at us like we must have been reckless teenage parents lol!

There is also this very gross version of 40+ year old new moms in America who basically speak of their children as some kind of evil burden bestowed upon them. I never understood how women who were raised by the most amazing stay at home suburban moms in the 80's & 90's could turn around and reject the magical version of childhood they received.