So for my setup, I have a dedicated machine that is running two vms. One vm has mynode (which is the one with issues) and the other running umbrel.
I have had annoying power issues here for past few weeks due to a tornado that came through. We still have seen occasional surges. That likely has something to do with it.
Also I'm running a few miners and my house is notorious for tripping breakers. I think my electricity here is not the cleanest unfortunately. But I've had several instances of overloading a couple circuits and I think that could be contributing to the problem too...
That or tor is just finicky