The man creates his world and invites a woman into it. It's your world. You created it, you control it, you decide what happens. She's your girl, your woman, not a partner.
Discussion
Why does it have to be like this?
How do you want it to be?
Why can't a husband and a wife create a world together and be partners? Is your masculinity so fragile that you can't handle being equals with your wife?
Nope. Your hypergamy is so strong that you always want someone better.
Women can always get a man whose several levels above them. If they don't, they feel genetic disgust. It's like selling your product for much cheaper that you could.