If you just need a good, solid, self-custodial lightning wallet with reasonable fees, I recommend you check out Breez. It’s a “node in the phone” app, and is excellent for normal sending and receiving on LN. It also supports on chain payments, although there is a swap fee associated with on chain. It doesn’t give you a lightning address for receiving, so it’s not one you can add to your Nostr profile. But if you need a safer place to move sats out of your custodial wallets, it’s a great option. Here’s a screenshot of what its current fees look like to receive and establish a new channel.