I didn’t understand flirting for ages. Then one day I made eye contact with a guy, smiled, and asked what breed his dog was… at the dog park. He started sputtering and finally got out that he had a fiancé. Which left me very confused until I released that what I had done was enough to make a man think I was flirting. That’s how simple it was. So I’m guessing being a mysterious woman is equally as simple. Don’t tell him your entire life story upon meeting. Don’t always be available. If you carry medicine in your purse have it in a container labeled Poison ☠️. Probably does it.