>I'm sorry society let you down and didn't save you from yourself.

That is the thing. Most people want to be lead, and society leads them to cut the genitals off of their kids. And we know how it goes, even when I do try to warn people off I become "that guy". The guy who will never be spoken to again, the guy who will never be invited to a wider and wider circle of events put on by families and friends because my presence will upset some headcase who has held their "love" hostage over their deranged worldview.