I believe you're trying to host your relay. If you're looking for recommendations for the software, recently I've asked the exact same question and got some nice replies:
https://primal.net/e/nevent1qqsq3pcsvrf4cwyud7x739tscyam9m5nc4564xwuxunkqucv8gjh35gqacfsa
Thank you for the link. I'm currentling running nostr-rs-relay but I would like newer or more complete projects as there are new NIPS. Haven has blossom media server and that' great. I found another relay, nostercheck with similar capabilites, but I would like to hear what people say about their preferred relays to use one or another.
