To me, it's a natural thing for a young man to race to procreate and figure it out after. The mind/fear stops our passions. And for me, there was no greater passion then my 19 yo hard ons. I wanted kids and I didn't give a fuck.
Best non-decision I ever made.
I know it's been said but the time is never "right"
I hope we aren't evolving out of desire to procreate. We need that.
I want to, but Ive lived through enough broken family bullshit in my life where I never want to put my own kid through what I did. So im willing to wait For a stable relationship. It does make me happy that I have friends out there who I see is doing it right.
As long as you have a pure vision and intention to be a good dad, you will. Even bad dads are good. My dad sucked objectively. But he was perfect for me. Of course I now believe in a souls journey. It's all connected.
Of course rushing is never good.
We all have different paths.
