Some relay implementations are breaking coracle's relay reviews due to restrictive request validation, which is based on NIP-32. I'm getting two different errors:

`["NOTICE","ERROR: bad req: too many tags in filter"]` from e.g. nostr.wine and relay.damus.io

`["NOTICE","invalid: \"[2].#L\" is not allowed"]` from purplepag.es

My request isn't unreasonable, it has three tag filters, in line with NIP 32. Can we get these restrictions relaxed?