Thanks
Sorry to hear that mate.
Recommend checking out https://kycnot.me/ for DEXs.
Bisq is a good one.
Also use tor, or Mullvad VPN 👍.
It's not your money if it can be taxed.
Discussion
This guide also covers quite a bit if you want more information.
https://bitcoinmagazine.com/guides/how-to-buy-bitcoin-anonymously
I also recommend checking out
https://ashigaru.rs/ (They're a samourai fork)