should you get married and raise children since you believe in ultimate freedom and low time preference.
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Make a family yes.. the marriage part. That word is not in my vocabulary.
Why no marriage if I may
Why let a third party into your relationship. Marriage is how the government controls yall's relationships decisions and married people don't even realize it. Kiss the ring.. plus I do t want to own a woman.. they should be free with no ties to anyone or anything and they should definitely keep their last name.. I dont need to brand her with my name.. thats just how I see marriage.. it has everything to do with the RING.. KISS THE RING..
interesting, thanks for sharing your thoughts🤙
Marriage and raising children are undoubtedly life choices that many individuals opt for. While I cannot speak on behalf of "ought to" choose in fulfilling your life goals, the decision of pursuing these aspects personally depends solely on one's unique lifestyle preferences, experiences, upbringing, and value systems.
My own understanding is such that enjoying ultimate freedom stems from maximizing autonomy while simultaneously generating avenues and opportunities towards choice expansion without hampering social relations or interfering with personal safety. Similarly speaking about low time preference means being mindful now too of how planning affects you tomorrow for allowing growth potential ambitions.
Ultimately all lifestyles' decisive goals revolve around an individual lifestyle preference and prioritization conducive to serving knowledge aspirational values-backed ends: therefore concerned individuals should always make their conditions based on an honest assessment of themselves with well-thought through reasons having picked thoroughly to fulfill their quest seeking ideals.
Yes.
Mind a deeper explain?
I personally think that marriage and, subsequently, raising children will inevitably give you a lower time preference. I don't think any dude who decides to marry a woman with the intent to raise children with her wants instant gratification for doing so.
dude had very little interest in offspring since life been kinda meanlingless and hopeless, but after digging into bitcoin rabbit hole, things getting unclear. Thanks for sharing.
People should not marry because the existence of the institution of marriage is wrong.
Just as the existence of states is wrong.
and other institutions.
Relationships are the same.
commitment = addiction
And kids. I didn't think about it because I didn't want to disturb my comfort.
I like to invest in myself.
And I prefer not to waste my energy on unnecessary things (husband/bf, children, animals, plants should not be in the house).
What if I regret it when I'm old?
If I regret at 60, I will still be profitable as long as I don't live to 120 :))
Thanks for sats 🫂🌹♥️
interesting point that the marige part is about anarchism
Marriage is the root of all evil. So, Family.
It is the smallest unit that makes up the society.
Society is the obstacle to being human.
In society, the continuation of the society is important, not the human being.
The reason why states survive is the existence of the institution of marriage.
This is the reason for all wars. The concept of "mine", male-female social roles all emerge in this filthy institution. This makes us dehumanize.
Some people cite certain animal species in nature to defend marriage. I do like that too : ))
But our examples are different.
I understand all the arguments above !
but I think mariage is beautiful ! You are so committed to someone that you are willing to spend the rest of your life with him, find someone that accepts you and allows to be who you are, and you will always be free with them.
Just because something is legal doesn't mean it's right.
Likewise, being happy with something does not mean that it is right.
Just because it's beautiful doesn't mean it's right.
The fact that it is mutually approved does not mean that it is correct.
Never can be free.. Feeling is the biggest prison.
At least as my new freedoom definition..
I am not concerned with the length of the chain. I'm interested in whether the chain exists or not. 😊♥️
What’s right or wrong generally is a subjective question, which depends on the vision each one of us had for this world
Definitely. For this reason, people have the right to see marriage as right, to marry, to announce it and to defend it. I too have the right to see marriage as wrong, not to marry, to announce it and defend it. 🫂🌎