Monero TX are mostly TX for payments where Bitcoin TX are mostly investors. There is a big difference. Lightning is nearly nine existent in general. You can find more store that accept Monero as Lightning. You compare sending Zaps with real payments? Really? And most of the Zappi de zap is custodial.

The most important thing is a payment which you can do in a private way. They track everything in BTC and they stop payments now, block funds etc. So Bitcoin runs in a dead end.