It might be good to widen irl pool if you find someone with one of those traits and slowly and over time turn towards the second. It’s also a far more interesting experience in my opinion to have differences in a mate. Like I’d never wanted a woman that was so much like me.
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I've been, a little... But... Nothing I like doing has a high concentration of women, let alone available women.
Join a book club or take up knitting 🤷♂️
better yet Pilates or 🧘
Most book clubs around here name me want to burn books.
I can knit, a bit.
I'm not paying for classes. And around here it's all lefty looney stay at home moms or usually bitter divorces.
