damus is most definitely the busiest relay https://void.cat/d/2Vcvcj3eKTonqDXa1mXnSz.webp
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Have you already launched your relay aggregator?
well, it's not (currently at least) a thing that captures/stores all traffic. it's just tracking profile data. the long term idea is that it might make https://nrcheck.tigerville.no and https://nosy.tigerville.no faster and more reliable.
Wow check out mostr.pub
mostr.pub has a lot of traffic and yet is not spammy. reason: it's forwarding traffic for people on Nostr who follow accounts on the Fediverse and vice versa. it's a safe relay to add that won't screw up your feed. it's 99.9% real people posting.