You are exactly where you're meant to be 💝

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My mum always says this to me (thank you mum) 🙏

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And it's so true. No matter if you are in difficult times of struggle, or if you are suffering. If you are hurting, or unhappy or feeling like the victim of something... You are where you are meant to be in this moment 💕

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Because although it might not be where you dream of being, although it might not yet be the life you desire, from this moment you get to decide if you want more of your current reality, or if you desire something new ✨

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I remember 2009. Sitting at the foot of a big oak tree crying my eyes out. My relationship was a mess, my family was falling apart. I was suffering from the words that had caused me to wish I could fall off the face of the earth 😔

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It was from that place, a feeling of nothingness, that I made the choice to change my life. I chose a path I never wanted for myself. I chose to become a solo parent of two kids under the age of 2. And in that moment, unbeknownst to me at the time, I set myself free 🦋

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Sometimes what you need, is something uncomfortable to take you through to something new. Often, our wildest dreams lay on the other side of our deepest fears 😱

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Your life is a gift. That includes the struggles and the heartaches and pain. These are the jewels given to you to guide you towards something better. Embrace all of your existence. And if you desire something better, don't be afraid to do the thing your heart is telling you to do 💝

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You deserve the life your heart desires... And sometimes that life is only a small (or sometimes big) decision away ✨🦄