A little absence can go a long way 👀 This is not romantic advise.
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I happen to be sitting next to a tarot deck so I drew a card for you. It's the Ace of Swords Reversed. Take it how you will.
"Inner clarity, re-thinking an idea, clouded judgement"
https://biddytarot.com/tarot-card-meanings/minor-arcana/suit-of-swords/ace-of-swords/