I don’t think very important things should only be done out of convenience especially in relationships but I don’t believe in unnecessary suffering either. I know we all have different strengths however I find that I trust and appreciate effort when I have the true and full insight on your present capacity and how much you pushed the envelope for my sake. That you did your absolute best, through kind, honest and empathic communication. So in those moments where efforts dont seem immediately or relatively tangible [of course this hurts a bit in the moment, the mutual love and devotion is an effective reminder that difficulties are transient.]