The whole point of feminism was that women who want to focus on their home, husband, and kids is that they could choose that. And if they want something else for their lives they could choose that too. It’s about agency to choose the life you want and not making all people do the same thing without regard for their desires. Want to be a tradwife, go for it. Want to be an astronaut, snowboarder, or academic. Do that. Ideally you could do any combination that works for you.