nostrudel is the bomb
i now have a testing client
i only wish it had a setting to automatically decrypt DMs
nostr:npub1fjqqy4a93z5zsjwsfxqhc2764kvykfdyttvldkkkdera8dr78vhsmmleku lmk if nostrudel works.
Probably not what you are looking for - Damus has MacOS native app with the relay model. No gossip. You should be able to select your relay only.
In the meanwhile I logged this on nostrability issues list https://github.com/nostrability/nostrability/issues/22
Discussion
iris.to is worth trying to, may not have the decrypt issue.. i havent used iris for a long time but i used to have success testing with one relay there too ( might not work any longer )
Auto decrypt a la nip-44?
Nostrudel is very much a Poweruser client. Need it constantly.