The question is? How to drop events? I'm not quite sure, I'll check, if there is such a thing in nostr-relay-rs.
Please do not accept invalid events in your client. Do not accept non-integer "created_at" values, do not accept non-string-array on "tags", do not accept bech32-encoded keys as tag values. Every time you do that, Nostr dies a little.
For more information on how this kills Nostr, read https://fiatjaf.com/27598e6f.html
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I remember seeing something in the logs when accessing a web client, if I'm not mistaken snort.