As a follow up to my other reply, for standard sending and receiving lightning payments, I’m a big fan of Breez wallet. See nostr:npub1mu7nv2jkaq4xausnn098xc8tp3gzgf2w5r2cj68x8dnns0rktmysnsj5cl . It’s a self custodial LN wallet. You’ll just need to make sure the app is open when sending/receiving. So it would work for sending zaps, but not for receiving them. Aqua Wallet is a good one for sending/receiving lightning payments, but I think has a 1000 sats minimum per transaction limit.